Saturday, September 8, 2012
Excusez-moi, but...I'm Vegetarian
The main component of French cuisine is meat. It probably has one of the most diverse varieties of meats to choose from, some of the more notorious foods including escargot (snails) and frog legs. Other disturbing choices are raw cow brain, goat heads, and the liver of a fattened goose. Not only do the French eat these foods, but they flaunt their culinary peculiarity with pride, and lace it into their cultural identity. I am a French girl, and I grew up eating these foods. When asked by American friends how I could stand these monstrosities, I often replied with, "It tastes like chicken." Now really, none of it actually tastes like chicken, but this is just a clever explanation someone invented a long time ago in order to justify the consumption of bizarre animals. Truth be told, I did enjoy eating pâté and moules frites, and not only did I revel in the rich gourmandise of it all, but I took delight, as do all the French, in seeing the shock it induced in foreigners' expressions.
Yet today I am not this girl.
When I first told my French side of the family that I had decided to become vegetarian, I was met with laughter and then disdain. First, they couldn't quite grasp the concept. I could still eat pork, right? And well after I thought they finally understood, they gave me shrimp and shellfish a few times. They told me that being vegetarian was mal vu, "badly viewed." They told me that I would grow frail and die young. They told me it was “un-French.” They couldn't change my opinion, though, because with each criticism I could only think of the costs of eating meat- the mistreatment of animals, wasted lives, appreciation for the soul, etc.
Looking back, I, myself, can't fathom how my opinion of meat changed so drastically at the young age of eleven. The only explanation I can summon is that I was always inclined to be vegetarian, but because of outside influences, I never thought of it as an option. I loved animals my whole life, and from the age of seven, I had a pet care business. When I heard about animal abuse and poaching, I was shocked and alarmed. Something about this transformation was making me somewhat separate from my family. I was learning to forge my own path with my own beliefs. When I started to develop my own opinions and ideas, I realized that I couldn't bear the thought of consuming a living animal which had been murdered for me.
French vegetarians are rare. I didn’t even think it was really possible. I can only pass off as completely French in France until meal time, at which point I am met by suspicious glares and prodding questions where I must quickly reveal that I am also American, and influenced by a multiplicity of cultures I’ve been immersed in overseas.
The French (or should I say we French?) are very protective of their/our nationality, and are often unwilling to believe that people with strange opinions and differences can be truly French. However, when I was in Paris this summer, my family and I went to a snazzy vegetarian French restaurant, and many of the traditional French recipes were offered with a vegetarian twist. I also saw several vegetarian restaurants and grocery stores in the West and South of France.
The general focus of this blog will be to introduce to the world the fusion of vegetarianism and French culture, as well as other quirky things that vegetarians as a group are generally drawn to (e.g. yoga, meditation, organic food, etc.).
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What an inspiring story. I admire your strength. Atta girl LOL :)
ReplyDeleteI'm impressed at your clear explanation of this culture clash that most of us haven't experienced! I'm excited to read this blog more and hear more about it.
ReplyDeleteThis is so interesting! I love the first paragraph and the context it gives for your transformation into a vegetarian. In the entire internet, I have not once seen this topic come up, so it's really exciting to see something different. You're a rebel with a cause ;)
ReplyDeleteI love this! Complemented by the calming lime green bamboo in the background, your revelation here is really nice. I decided to become pescetarian after watching Food Inc. in subbie science, and I remember hearing similar responses when I visited Korea, though eating meat is not as drastic of a cultural thing as it is in France. I love your point about being perceived as French until meal time, where your "outside influences" are revealed. Looking forward to reading more of your insights!
ReplyDeleteI've never thought about how it might be odd to be a vegetarian to other cultures. This is a really interesting perspective!
ReplyDeleteThis is such a cool topic; I never thought about how diet could clash with culture! I like how you took the time to explain what exactly it is that the French eat that you can no longer eat because it really shows us how much vegetarianism conflicts with French tradition (because I never knew that those were big French foods).
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to hear more!
I am extremely excited to learn about how your juggle your culture and your diet! I can understand how it might feel to be in your shoes because it is just as bad for a Chinese person to convert. Contrary to common belief, we Chinese are not limited to just rice porridge. In fact, for every meal nearly all dishes have some component of meat whether it is just bits of shredded pork or large, roasted ducks.
ReplyDeleteI can relate to this post so much. One side of my family is German and the other Irish, and neither culture really cottons to vegetarianism. For years after I stopped eating meat, my German grandparents would confront me with trays of sloppy joes and say "You can eat this, can't you?" (I don't know what the logic was – if it's ground up and sauced up, it's not really meat?) I actually spent a year in Ireland as a college student, and I had to give up my vegetarianism while I was there because I lived with an Irish family, and they ate meat and potatoes at least six nights a week. But the French question is thornier, in my view, because Irish cuisine is really nothing to write home about, and (while some people might love it) I've never really liked German food. French food is another issue. It would be hard to resist some of the amazing dishes French cooks prepare using meat. But I like the thought of a vegetarian French restaurant. I would check that out in a heartbeat.
ReplyDeleteIn China its not meat--its alcohol. If you are an adult and refuse a bottle of wine its also looked down upon. One of my uncles has a liver problem and is not supposed to drink, but is constantly forced to drink a cup or so whenever he goes out to eat with someone he is not particularly close with to show respect. In fact, being able to drink a lot is actually respected in China...海量 is the usual term for it.
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